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Feb 6, 2023Liked by Dr. Emily Smith

I LOVE your 7th place ribbon! I grew up in a Korean household where if you weren't first place, then you were last. It was always about achieving, succeeding. Then I had a beautiful daughter with an intellectual disability. It was hard, but I learned to slow down. I warn people about the "H" word. Anytime I would say "hurry," she would lie down on the floor. I have learned to advocate for her over the last 19 years so she won't be pushed to the margins. But that has required me to slow down, to wait and listen, to rest with her. Thanks for your encouraging words. I do love reading everything you write!

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Feb 6, 2023Liked by Dr. Emily Smith

Thank you so much for these words. You cannot know how deeply they have touched me. They were truly just what I need right now. Now I want a 7th Place ribbon of my own 🤗

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Feb 6, 2023Liked by Dr. Emily Smith

For heaven's sake make this easier! I am computer literate but heed your 7th Place advice and don't want to spend time figuring out what should be simple! My Substack credit card expired--email me about easy way to fix it or just accept my thanks for your columns from the past!

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